HOW TO MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

HOW TO MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

Form author Tracy Cox, here are Five Ways To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You:

1. Hang Around Lots ... but Then Be Unavailable. Several studies show repeated exposure to practically any stimulus makes us like it more (* except the "You're Beautiful" song). So, find lots of excuses to spend time with him. And just when you're convinced you've won them over and they like you, start being a little less available. And then even less, until they hardly see you at all. You've now effectively instigated the "law of scarcity." People want what they can't have.

2. Don't Do Nice Things for Them. Let Them Do Nice Things for You. If you do something nice for someone, it makes you feel good on two levels. You feel pleased with yourself and extra-warm toward the person you've just spoiled. When we're infatuated with someone, we're desperate to do nice things for him. You're much better off letting him spoil you.

3. Stare Into Their Eye. If you look at someone you like 75 percent of the time when they're talking to you, you trick their brain. The brain knows the last time that someone looked at them that long and often, it meant they were in love. So it thinks OK, I'm obviously in love with this person as well, and starts to release phenylethylamine (PEA). PEA is a chemical cousin to amphetamines and is secreted by the nervous system when we first fall in love. PEA is what makes our palms sweat, our tummies flip over, and our hearts race. The more PEA the person you want has pumping through the bloodstream, the more likely he is to fall in love with you.

4. Don't Look Away. If someone else joins your conversation while you're looking at each other, don't look away. If you do this to someone who's not in love with you (yet), you trick his brain into thinking he is, and even more PEA floods into his bloodstream.

5. Make Your Pupils Bigger. Scientists showed two sets of pictures of a woman's face to men. The photograph was identical, except for one thing; the pupils in one set had been doctored to make them larger. When shown the doctored photograph, men judged the woman as twice more attractive than when shown the real photo. It was repeated with a man's face and tested on women and gave the same result. You can't consciously control your pupils, but if you set the mood with a darker space, your pupils will naturally become bigger.